Outsider Coffee - Wake-Up

WAKE-UP WORDS: CHOOSE CURIOSITY OVER ASSUMING

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Tue, 09 Jan 2024 19:48:27 GMT

We can assume we know someone based on their political views, their job, their home, their generation, their faith. But all assuming does is keep us from relationship, create social divides, and keep our worlds small. Curiosity on the other hand gives room to really hear others, to gain new perspective, and to heal. Curiosity builds hope and unity. What will you choose today?

TAKE ACTION: Choose one person you’ve assumed things about and ask them something that could challenge that assumption! Just do it … it will be worth it!

WAKE-UP WORDS: COURAGE OVER COMFORT

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Tue, 09 Jan 2024 19:17:50 GMT

Of course comfort sounds like the better option. BUT courage … there’s nothing like it. Courage requires action. It requires leaving what we know for the uncertainty of what we long for. Thats why it’s hard, courage takes us to places where there no guarantees. It’s terrifying and it’s amazing all in one!

While courage has led us to take some massive steps in life, like starting a coffee business in a crazy saturated area, moving our family across the country where we didn’t no one and launching a franchise to spread our positive message across the US - it all starts with small steps!!!

What is ONE small step you can take out of comfort today? Talk to a stranger��, take a cold shower ��‍♀️, order something different ☕️ … small steps lead to bigger ones and then one day you’ll realize you have chosen a life of courage over comfort!

WAKE-UP WORDS: BE BOLD - TAKE ACTION

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Fri, 05 Jan 2024 14:21:44 GMT

No one is coming to drop your dreams in a neat little package on your lap. If you want something you have to go after it! That means it's time to risk a little bigger, say yes to what you've been procrastinating and actually start taking steps toward the thing you can't stop thinking about.

TAKE ACTION: Often, the reason we're not moving forward toward our dreams is because we've latched on to one or all of these beliefs:
1) Failure is the worst thing that could happen.
2) You need more money to start.
3) You need to have it all figured out before you take the first step.

Take a moment to think about these three statements. Are any of them true or even partially true for you? If so - start asking what you could do today if that belief wasn’t actually true… hmmhmm because it’s not!

WAKE UP WORDS: USE WHAT YOU'VE GOT.

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Thu, 04 Jan 2024 17:31:30 GMT

What if the question is not "how do I get to where I wanna be?" But - " What do I already have to take me farther than I ever dreamed?" You have everything you need right now to blow doors off the goals you just set for 2024 - the key is to know what you've got so you can use it!

TAKE ACTION: Make a list of your top 3 failures of 2023 (this sounds harsh but stick with me.) Next to those failures write what you learned. Those three things are gold. How can you use them to accelerate your growth in what you're currently going after? We love you and we're with you!!

WAKE-UP WORDS: BE A VOICE NOT AN ECHO

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 16 Oct 2023 16:21:57 GMT

The world is full of echos right now. In the age of social media it's easy to grab onto info that supports our world view (whether it's accurate or not) and echo it loudly for all to hear. Echos easily become noise and take away from the beauty of every day life. An echo just regurgitates someone else's thoughts. BUT, a voice comes from someone who is brave enough to offer their unique perspective AFTER getting the full scope of an issue. When we are able to speak after critically thinking through an issue, when we have something valuable to add to the conversation THEN our voice can actually create positive change in a sea of noise.

TAKE ACTION: Today we all get to choose - Will we regurgitate news headlines that were designed to outrage OR will we take a minute to research, think about/pray about and then share if we have something to offer? One choice is easy and feels good in the moment, the other can actually create positive change, calm our media induced outrage and build community. Choose wisely friends!

WAKE UP WORDS: MOVE FORWARD RELENTLESSLY

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Wed, 11 Oct 2023 15:42:44 GMT

MOVE FORWARD RELENTLESSLY: What's keeping you from moving forward? Excuses mask the issues we need to face in order to move forward. Procrastination and avoidance usually point us to the root of trauma or brokenness that needs to be healed! If we pin point the barriers we faced in the past week we will know exactly what needs to be dealt with in order to keep moving forward.

TAKE ACTION: Today let’s look at those areas with honesty and grace. Let’s choose to take steps to get rid of what’s keeping us stuck! Being willing to admit there are deeper issues behind our excuses is a HUGE step forward! We can’t heal what we won’t bring to light - and we can't move forward with any sort of purpose if we can't heal and let go of what's holding us back! You’re amazing and strong and so worth this honest first step forward! Let’s do it together!

WAKE-UP WORDS: REMEMBER WHY YOU STARTED

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Tue, 10 Oct 2023 14:42:02 GMT

REMEMBER WHY YOU STARTED. The key to not quitting? The answer when you're stuck and frustrated? The energy you need when you're tired and it all feels impossible? It all lies in those first 4 words. REMEMBER WHY YOU STARTED.

It's so easy to get distracted by things that don't matter. It's human nature to look at what's not working instead of celebrating how far we've come. So when we can take a moment, or maybe a few days to revisit WHY we started down this road in the first place... everything changes!

TAKE ACTION: To embrace the passion you had when you decided to take this risk and say yes will most likely be the fire you need to keep going. If you're in a rough spot and you can't seem to gain traction, go back to the simplicity of the dream you started with - and choose to pivot- same dream just a new direction with a fresh perspective. If you're tired take a break but don't quit! You started this journey for a reason, the world needs you! We need you! Remember why you started and keep going!!

WAKE-UP WORDS: DON'T SETTLE

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Tue, 10 Oct 2023 14:29:17 GMT

DON'T SETTLE: I’m a community college dropout. I started a church in a bar. All I know about marketing and design has been self-taught or learned through books and Youtube. Two of our four boys are on the autism spectrum, and I’ve always struggled with feeling like a failure as a mom. Always. We’ve started businesses and failed. We’ve lost everything. We’ve faced public humiliation and private rejection. We’ve known the comfort of the golden handcuffs (being at a job that pays good enough to make us question if following our dreams is even responsible). And still, we know every day is an opportunity to risk and to step out beyond what we know and are comfortable with.

We have embraced the call of the Outsider, the less-traveled road filled with challenge after challenge. We are determined to see setbacks as learning experiences, and we will counter sleepless, stress-filled nights with the overwhelming peace of knowing we are living our destiny.

You don’t have to quit your job or flip society the finger to find your place at the Outsider table. But you do have to choose to wake up to your purpose and to keep saying yes even when it feels impossible. When we choose the life of an Outsider, we see our failures as opportunities, and eventually, risk becomes a part of our DNA.

The bottom line is, we are no longer confined to what society says success looks like — we are no longer bound to doing what is expected. We are free to say yes in the face of impossibility. We can ultimately refuse to fit in and wake up to our own greatness.

Are you ready to wake up to yours?

WAKE UP WORDS: IT'S WORTH IT!

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 22 May 2023 14:50:28 GMT

IT’S WORTH IT . Have you ever fought really hard for something and found yourself wondering at 2 am what the heck you’re doing?? (I know I can’t be the only one!) In those moments of fear, frustration or just pure exhaustion - take a moment to think about what you know is true! Look at all that “your fight” has accomplished in your own life and the world around you.

TAKE ACTION: Remember why you started AND how strong you’ve become through the process. These truths have a way of shrinking our fear and everything that’s making us question our path. Take a moment to get real about what's difficult and why it's making you question your direction. The energy you get from this process is what will remind you that this journey you’ve chosen IS WORTH IT! Here’s to starting your week off with hard questions! May the answers inspire you to keep going!

WAKE UP WORDS: MAKE PROGRESS NOT EXCUSES

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Sun, 21 May 2023 16:24:25 GMT

MAKE PROGRESS NOT EXCUSES. Excuses mask the issues we need to face in order to move forward. Procrastination and avoidance usually point us to the root of trauma or brokenness that needs to be healed! If we look at the excuses we made last week we will know exactly what needs to be dealt with in order to keep moving forward.

TAKE ACTION: Today let’s look at those areas with honesty and grace. Let’s choose to start this new week by taking steps to get rid of what’s keeping us stuck! Being willing to admit there are deeper issues behind our excuses is a HUGE step forward! We can’t heal what we won’t bring to light! You’re amazing and strong and so worth this honest first step forward! Let’s do it together!

WAKE UP WORDS: ONE DAY AT A TIME.

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Sat, 20 May 2023 16:38:24 GMT

ONE DAY AT A TIME. Easy advice to give but definitely harder to live by. What does it mean and why should you care? Choosing to adopt this motto means focusing on the present moment, setting manageable goals and taking care of yourself - mind, body and spirit!

It's so easy to be distracted by the "urgent" and totally miss out on the most important things in our lives... mainly PEOPLE. Today if you're overwhelmed break down the challenge you're facing into three parts and ask yourself these questions:

Part 1: What has to be done today?

Part 2: How can I do what I'm dreading and still be kind to myself and the people around me?

Part 3: What's my first step?

When you can truly live your life one day at a time you will be more productive AND you will carry peace and presence with you wherever you go!

WAKE UP WORDS: LOOK FOR PEOPLE TO SERVE

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Wed, 18 Jan 2023 12:30:22 GMT

YOU are the answer. It's easy to sit around and give our opinions on what the govt. should or shouldn't do to help us and our community. But the truth is, when we choose to serve others around us in any capacity we create a momentum for change that dwarfs anything any politician can do. Titles and terms don't change the world... WE do.

TAKE ACTION: Let's make this our focus today! Think of one person you can serve today and then do it! This is how we change the world!

WAKE UP WORDS: CONQUER FROM WITHIN

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Fri, 06 Jan 2023 09:45:00 GMT

Our biggest battles are most often internal. Our beliefs fuel our though life. Not what we say we believe, but what we actually believe about ourselves, other people, God and the world around us. Our thoughts then inform our reality and are truly the filter through which we run our life experiences through.

It's tempting to blame others for what we don't love in our lives, but the truth is we can actually conquer most of the challenges we're facing by simply ( it's not easy, but it is simple) adjusting what we believe. To be able to overcome a negative view on life - and to adopt the belief that for the most part people are good and are doing the best they can - will change so much almost instantly. To look ourselves in the mirror and call out what we love and to honor the amazing parts of who we are creates the foundation for self love and confidence. To serve others and treat them with kindness before they deserve it will build up the belief that WE CAN make a difference in the world, no matter what is going on around us! I can go on - but I don't need to... you do!

TAKE ACTION: What is one belief you're holding on to that is negative but might not be 100% true. (Think of generalizations you've made about others or judgements you've made about yourself or the world around you.) Ask yourself these questions:
1) Is this 100% true, 100% of the time?

2) If it's not 100% true, what is the actual truth?

3) How does the actual truth affect what you're choosing to believe?

4) How can choosing to believe the actual truth make a powerful change in how you view/treat yourself or others?

WAKE UP WORDS: BE BOLD - TAKE ACTION!

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Thu, 05 Jan 2023 10:45:00 GMT

No one is coming to drop your dreams in a neat little package on your lap. If you want something you have to go after it! That means it's time to risk a little bigger, say yes to what you've been procrastinating and actually start taking steps toward the thing you can't stop thinking about.

TAKE ACTION: Often, the reason we're not moving toward our dreams is because we've latched on to one or all of these beliefs:
1) Failure is the worst thing that could happen.
2) You need more money to start.
3) You need to have it all figured out before you take the first step.

Take a moment to think about these three statements. Are any of them true or even partially true for you? If so - start asking what you could do today if that belief wasn’t actually true… hmmhmm because it’s not!

WAKE UP WORDS: USE WHAT YOU'VE GOT

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Wed, 04 Jan 2023 13:43:15 GMT

What if the question is NOT "how do I get to where I wanna be?" But - "what do I already have to take me farther than I ever dreamed?" You have everything you need right now to blow doors off the goals you just set for 2023 - the key is to know what you've got so you can use it!

TAKE ACTION: Make a list of the top 3 failures of 2022 (stick with me.) Next to those failures write what you learned. Those three things are GOLD . How can you use them to accelerate your growth in what you're currently going after? We love you and we're with you!!

WAKE UP WORDS: YOUR DREAM IS BEAUTIFUL

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 02 Jan 2023 12:29:31 GMT

Whether you're the resolutions type or not we all have a dream of some sort. Going after it doesn't have to start because it's the new year, but it should start. You're the only person who can carry out your dream the way you can. What you're carrying right now has the potential to make the word a better place! What are you going to do about it!

TAKE ACTION: We're 42% more likely to accomplish what we right down. I right down my dreams every single morning. It's not woo woo vudoo- when we're intentional about writing it - we bring it back to the forefront of our mind! Today and everyday this week I dare you to write your dream down and then repeat the same process next week ��

WAKE UP WORDS: FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED!

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Wed, 07 Dec 2022 15:29:57 GMT

You've persevered through things this year you didn't think you could. You've stepped out in some areas and started some things but then life happened and the things you were excited to change kind of got swallowed up. Plans forgotten, dreams put on hold, well meaning intentions forgotten or justified away. Listen, this isn't about beating up on ourselves for things we picked up and dropped during the year. This is an invitation to reevaluate what's really important. If you started something that was actually important to you at any point this year but you had to set it aside because real life was too intense, IT'S OK!!!!

Step 1 is to give yourself GRACE!!! Step 2 is to Pivot! Don't give up on the things that are important to you because life got hard - take a step back and ask yourself how you can pivot and revise your plan. Finish what you started this year by implementing baby steps to move you forward!! You're too important to give up on!! Following your dreams or being disciplined enough to start a new path forward it hard! That's why most people settle for the easier way! But, you're not most people! You're an Outsider and you're worth the fight!! We're in the front row cheering you on! Don't quit, just pivot!!

WAKE UP WORDS: HOLD ON TO HOPE

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Tue, 29 Nov 2022 13:44:27 GMT

Your best days are still to come! It's the truth. Hope is powerful and when we live our lives like there's more to come we feed our hope. Hope eats fear for breakfast, hope turns a spark of inspiration into real change, hope believes the best and never gives up. When we hold on to hope we can absolutely count on the fact that we haven't seen anything yet!!

TAKE ACTION: What area of your life do you need more hope in? What story are you telling yourself about it? Negative thoughts and beliefs feed a negative outlook and that shapes EVERYTHING. This isn’t woo woo it’s a fact! So, today we challenge you to think of ALL OF THE POSSIBILITIES IN THAT AREA (HHMMMHMMM, The good possibilities) Think about what you want to happen. Write it down. Tell it to a trusted friend. And refuse the negative. Do this tomorrow and the next day and the day after that and watch your hope increase!!!

WAKE UP WORDS: HELP OTHERS WIN

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 28 Nov 2022 14:42:25 GMT

It's easy to be so focused on our own lives and our own struggles that we forget we carry something special to give to the world and to help those around us. There's so many things we can do to pave the way and encourage the people in our lives to win.

When we help someone else win it takes nothing away from our own stories, in fact it's just the opposite. Helping someone else get where their going by giving what we carry adds to who we are and what we have to offer the world.

TAKE ACTION: Today take stock of what you have and who needs a boost in your life. Reach out to one person and encourage them on their journey! You don't need to have it all together, you don't need to be crushing your own goals and you certainly don't need to wait until you've "arrived" to pour into those around you! Let's do it together!

WAKE UP WORDS: YOU ARE THE ANSWER

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 14:00:00 GMT

I don't know how many times I've heard the world is going to hell in a hand basket this year. Too many.

While there is so much we can't control, there is equally as much we can do to make a difference. If the world is crumbling it's because we the people have allowed it and have chosen not to be a part of the solution.

YOU are the answer someone else is waiting for. That's not corny or cliche... it's true. Every time we say, "Somebody really should..." we need to ask ourselves if we have the solution. So many of us do, but we're held back because we fear failure, we are afraid of what others will think or we're still carrying shame or regret from our pasts.

Guess what?? It's not someone else's job to make the world a better place!! It's yours... and mine.

TAKE ACTION: When was the last time you said… “Someone should really…” ? How can you contribute, even if it’s crazy small, to a solution for that problem? We have to start somewhere, where do you need to start today?

C.J. and I dive deep into this question in an Outsider Nation Podcast episode we recorded a few months ago!! Listen and share with a friend who needs to be in on this conversation!

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outsider-nation/id1498553471?i=1000535057244

Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/46446581

WAKE UP WORDS: 100% KINDNESS 0% DRAMA

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Sun, 13 Nov 2022 15:00:00 GMT

The world has enough drama, what we need most right now is kindness. As Outsiders it's our passion to rise above personal differences and even intense political climates and choose to treat people with genuine love and kindness. WHY??? Is it because we don't have our own opinions? Is it because we're choosing to bury our heads in the sand about important issues that affect our community?? Uhhhhh Nope! It's because we know that at the center of it all - if we know our enemy is never the person standing in front of us ... if we believe in the healing power of love and the world changing impact of kindness - we can solve the world's problems in ways that don't include tearing others down or shouting messages of hate and divisiveness.

Today we're inviting you to join us in leaving the drama and simply choosing love and kindness! That's how we create change! That's how we make the world a better place!

WAKE UP WORDS: CELEBRATE YOUR GROWTH

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Sat, 12 Nov 2022 14:00:00 GMT

Think through all of the opportunities this past year has brought you to learn and grow - And don't stop there! Use that growth as the foundation for everything you're going to go after in the last 2 months of 2022!

TAKE ACTION: Take some time today to think about the past 11 months.

WRITE THIS DOWN: Where did you bite the dust? How did it make you better? How can you use that to fuel what's next! We're Outsiders so we believe every "failure" is fuel for growth and greatness!!! Let's finish this year well NO MATTER what we've been through!!

WAKE UP WORDS: EXCHANGE COMPARISON FOR GRATITUDE

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:47:08 GMT

Comparison robs our joy, creativity and innovation. Gratitude on the other hand is the birthplace of those things. It's not enough just to tell ourselves to stop comparing - we have to replace it with something! Today we're challenging you to EXCHANGE any thought of comparison for a thought rooted in gratitude.

Believe it or not it is possible to control our thoughts. When we can own this truth, everything in life begins to come alive! As soon as a negative comparing thought starts to take shape stop!! Intentionally choose to exchange it for gratitude! This is how we win the battle wage in our hearts and minds every day. This is how we get stronger and grow our capacity for greatness.

What you have in front of you is so much more valuable than anything anyone else you're comparing yourself to has... but you will never realize it if you can't make this simple exchange!

You're not alone!! We're walking this path with you friend! Cheers to an incredible Wednesday!

WAKE UP WORDS:YOUR STORY MATTERS

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:46:46 GMT

We've said it before and we will keep saying it! The life you've lived, what you've overcome, how you've chosen to heal and grow... ALL OF THAT MATTERS! How we choose to wield the power of our story is what makes the difference.

Broken people break people - healed people heal people. Your story is the catalyst for healing for all of those walking a similar path behind you! The more vulnerable you can be about it - and the less shame you choose to carry - the more people will feel inspired to join you in using their story for the good of the world too!!

TAKE ACTION: Choose hope and healing today for ourselves so we can make a positive impact in the world around us!

WAKE UP WORDS: IT'S WORTH IT.

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:35:55 GMT

Have you ever fought really hard for something and found yourself wondering at 2 am what the heck you’re doing?? (I know I can’t be the only one!) In those moments of fear, frustration or just pure exhaustion - it’s our opportunity to take a moment to recount what we know is true! Look at all that “your fight” has accomplished in your own life and the world around you.

Remember why you started and how strong you’ve become through the process. These truths have a way of shrinking our fear and everything that’s making us question our path. The answers to these questions are what remind us that this journey we’ve chosen is worth it. Here’s to starting next week off with hard questions!

May the answers inspire you to keep going!

WAKE UP WORDS: LOVE WHAT YOU'VE GOT.

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:34:37 GMT

You might not have everything you want but this is your friendly reminder to:

    - look at where you are
    - how far you’ve come
    - all you do have
    - just be grateful.

Sometimes the quickest way to change our perspective is to choose to love what we already have.

TAKE ACTION: What is one thing you’ve absolutely taken for granted lately that deserves some love? Choose love this week and watch how your world changes!

WAKE-UP WORDS: DWELL IN POSSIBILITY.

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:14:56 GMT

If we spend our lives justifying why what we want is impossible - it always will be. We will stay safely in the comfort of a life cut short of all we were meant for IF we refused to dwell in what might actually be possible.

Hard words for a Monday, but as a recovering “realist” (aka a pessimistic, “the glass is half empty” type of gal) I know the power of intentionally making the mental switch to deciding my dreams are in fact POSSIBLE.

When we live in a mental space of seeing obstacles as invitations and possibilities in every opportunity - life opens up to a whole new level of freedom and fulfillment. Where do you need to dwell in what’s possible this week?? It starts with a shift in mindset and the sky is the limit from there! Here’s to a week of infinite possibility!!

WAKE UP WORDS: THE SUN WILL KEEP RISING

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Wed, 02 Nov 2022 14:30:27 GMT

Setbacks happen. Challenges pop up when we least expect it. Sometimes life is just hard. It's just how it is. BUT here's what we know... always, until the end of time - THE SUN WILL KEEP RISING!

There is always HOPE. There is always a way out, even when it doesn't feel like it. The key is to believe, to look for and to expect the hard times to end and the sun to rise again.

If you're in a tough spot take a moment to remember a time when you were at your lowest, now remember how you made it through. If it happened before, it will happen again!

You are loved and you're not alone!!

WAKE UP WORDS: EXHALE FEAR

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 16:29:19 GMT

The best way I know to deal with fear is to face it head on, walk towards it and then ... let it go. Holding on to fear allows it to shape who we are and what we’ll say yes to - and that’s not the life you (or I) were created for! It will try to come back. Fear is sneaky that way - but when you recognize it and deal with it - it’s easier to breathe in resolve and exhale fear.

TAKE ACTION: Think about last week. What specific fear have you dealt with repeatedly? How can facing it head on help you? What would your life be like without that specific fear? We’re with you and cheering you on! Here’s to a courageous Monday!

WAKE-UP WORDS: CHOOSE TO GROW.

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Wed, 26 Oct 2022 15:50:25 GMT

Sounds like a good plan until we realize growth doesn’t usually come when we’re comfortable and life is easy street. Growth comes when we say yes to risks, when we choose adventure, when we wake up and believe we’re worth loving . Growth comes through pain, growth comes when we face our fears, growth comes when we’re curious and willing to learn.

When we choose to grow we become stronger, deeper, more compassionate, and truly courageous!

TAKE ACTION: What area of your life could you use some growth in. (Hmmhmm choose the first thing that came to mind before you talk yourself out of it.) Just choose one small area of your life. Make a decision to change and grow! Write it down. Tell a friend. And then grow baby grow. It might not be easy - but it will be worth it!

WAKE-UP WORDS: BE YOU BOLDLY

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 15:41:27 GMT

Hiding is one of the most justifiably dangerous things any of us can do. It’s dangerous because it robs us of relationship, connection and loving ourselves. Choosing to be invisible is allowing our fear to win!!!

TAKE ACTION: Today when you’re tempted to hide, we challenge you to STOP and ask yourself how showing up will serve you and those around you. You have something important to offer the world today, and it’s your responsibility to bring it boldly!

WAKE UP WORDS: CELEBRATE SMALL VICTORIES

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 17 Oct 2022 14:23:26 GMT

THERE'S NO VICTORY TOO SMALL TO CELEBRATE!

You want to know the number one way to keep going even when it's really hard?? Celebrate the small stuff! As a mom of kids with special needs this one thing kept us moving forward more than any other therapy or support group. When you can embrace that every small victory matters - something changes.

When we can celebrate the small stuff it's like having the code to the vault that holds all of our peace, joy and happiness. The "what ifs" and debilitating fears get smaller because they don't thrive in gratitude, self love and joy... all byproducts of celebrating small victories!!

What do you need to celebrate in your life today? I dare you to make a list and keep it close so you can look at it through out the day today!

We're celebrating YOU - and the incredible honor it is to facilitate such an incredible community of Outsiders!!! Happy Monday!

WAKEUP WORDS: NEVER SETTLE

info@outsider.coffee (Lindsay McPhail) — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 12:42:06 GMT

CHALLENGE THE STATUS QUO.

At some point along the way, you got civilized - you've labeled your dreams as naive or impossible & you've assimilated into "adult life". You've gone with the flow because it's what's easiest & what's expected but not always what the best for you or the people you love.

What if … what your heart desires lies on the other side of what you're settling for?

TAKE ACTION - ANSWER THIS QUESTION:

Where have you settled for ordinary when deep down you know you need to go against the grain to be fully alive?

Today is your day! We're cheering for you and we're fighting against the comfort that keeps us trapped and content with settling right along side of you!

WAKE UP WORDS: NEVER STOP BEING CURIOUS.

Mon, 26 Sep 2022 11:24:00 GMT

Curiosity grows our hearts and our minds. It helps strengthen our relationships and is key to getting us where we want to go in life. More

WAKE UP WORDS: TODAY IS A GIFT.

Thu, 22 Sep 2022 12:46:00 GMT

What you do with the time given to you today matters. It's easy to put off what's important for another day because we're too busy, running errands, checking to-do's off our lists or committing to things we know we don't want to say yes to. Eventually the really important stuff isn't even on the back burner, because our lives have been taken over completing "urgent" tasks and handling the next crisis. (I know I can't be alone in this!)

BUT we weren't meant to live in a state of constant chaos, stress or survival mode. The check list will always be there, there will always be fires to put out and people with no boundaries wanting more and more from us in life. AT SOME POINT we have to stop, breathe and remember what's important. We have to remove ourselves from the chaos and focus the gift today has brought us.

TAKE ACTION: We can't always control the chaos around us, but we can control how we prioritize what we give to it. What's the most important thing in your life today? Have you been treating it like a gift or a burden? Today we get to choose what we give energy to... let's make sure it's the important stuff!! xox Linz

WAKE UP WORDS: LOVE WHO YOU ARE.

Thu, 22 Sep 2022 12:39:00 GMT

What we’ve been through determines what we carry around in life, it doesn't define who we are. The goal is to heal from trauma and dump the unhealthy baggage but to keep the wisdom, compassion and perspective from ALL of the experiences we’ve lived through.

No one else has lived what you have, so no one else has a story to tell like you do. Your story shapes you but never defines you. That’s what makes what YOU CARRY so special. It’s unique to you and can not only change your life for the better BUT ALSO has the power to change the world around you! And that's worth loving!

We miss out on so much when we allow our past to make decisions for our future. To dive deeper on this check out 3 Ways To Make Sure Your Past Isn't Defining You! on our Outsider Nation Podcast! See the link below.

Although some of us have carried the shame and grief of immense challenges in life, you don't have to have a crazy wild past or huge trauma to allow it to define you. Today we can choose to use all we've been through to fuel something greater. It's all about perspective, choosing to heal and being brave enough to take the first step!

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WAKE UP WORDS: YOU ARE NOT BEHIND.

Tue, 20 Sep 2022 12:06:00 GMT

Repeat after me. "I'm not behind." It may feel that way. Maybe you've taken a wrong turn or three in your journey to where you are right now.. but you've
never been in a better position to go after your dreams.

Those detours and bumps in the road that have held you up or changed your plans have actually made you stronger and have expanded your capacity for courage, risk and adventure.

It's not too late. You're not too old. You haven't missed your chance. You're not behind!

TAKE ACTION : What area in your life have you written off bc you think you’re too far behind?? Ask yourself these three questions:

1) Why do I feel like I’m behind?

2) What are the consequences of giving up on this area?

3) What COULD happen if I choose to stick with it and refuse to believe the lie that you’re too far behind to accomplish what you’re going after?

WAKE UP WORDS: GRATITUDE UNLOCKS POSSIBILITY.

Fri, 16 Sep 2022 12:23:00 GMT

Gratitude keeps our heads up, our eyes open and our minds present to exactly what's going on in front of us! We will never know what's possible if we only focus on what we don't have. Possibility is an exchange. When we're grateful our minds and hearts are open to see the opportunity in front of us. When we choose to take action, that opportunity is exchanged for possibility. What could happen in your life today if your attitude and perspective reflected your gratitude for what you have, where you've been and even for the dreams you hope to accomplish some day?

TAKE ACTION: Today let’s choose unlimited possibility, what are three not obvious things in your life that you can decide to be grateful for?

WAKE UP WORDS: LOOK FOR THE GOOD

Wed, 14 Sep 2022 12:12:00 GMT

Anyone can point out the negative. When we focus on what's good it opens our eyes and hearts to see even more good in the world around us!Today we're challenging you to be a true Outsider and actively look for AND call out the GOOD!

TAKE ACTION: Post some positive news in your timeline or text a positive article to friends and family.

WAKE UP WORDS: YOU ARE THE ANSWER.

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 13:36:00 GMT

I don't know how many times I've heard the world is going to hell in a hand basket this year. Too many.

While there is so much we can't control, there is equally as much we can do to make a difference. If the world is crumbling it's because we the people have allowed it and have chosen not to be a part of the solution.

YOU are the answer someone else is waiting for. That's not corny or cliche... it's true. Every time we say, "Somebody really should..." we need to ask ourselves if we have the solution. So many of us do, but we're held back because we fear failure, we are afraid of what others will think or we're still carrying shame or regret from our pasts.

Guess what?? It's not someone else's job to make the world a better place!! It's yours... and mine.

TAKE ACTION: When was the last time you said… “Someone should really…” ? How can you contribute, even if it’s crazy small, to a solution for that problem? We have to start somewhere, where do you need to start today?

C.J. and I dive deep into this question in an Outsider Nation Podcast episode we recorded a few months ago!! Listen and share with a friend who needs to be in on this conversation!

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outsider-nation/id864-314-2529?i=864-314-2529

Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/864-314-2529

WAKE UP WORDS: IT’S WORTH IT.

Sun, 11 Sep 2022 13:57:00 GMT

Have you ever fought really hard for something and found yourself wondering at 2 am what the heck you’re doing?? (I know I can’t be the only one!) In those moments of fear, frustration or just pure exhaustion - it’s our opportunity to take a moment to recount what we know is true! Look at all that “your fight” has accomplished in your own life and the world around you.

Remember why you started and how strong you’ve become through the process. These truths have a way of shrinking our fear and everything that’s making us question our path. The answers to these questions are what remind us that this journey we’ve chosen is worth it . Here’s to starting next week off with hard questions!

May the answers inspire you to keep going!

WAKE UP WORDS: BE CREATIVELY KIND

Sat, 10 Sep 2022 15:14:00 GMT

We talk a lot about changing the world… and this is the number one way to do it!

Kindness isn’t always easy when life is challenging and we’re not at our best… but it’s always powerful.

What would it look like to get creative with your kindness today? Our favorite way to get creative is to do the unexpected! Here’s our top 3 ways to unexpectedly, creatively be kind today:

1) RETURN SNARKYNESS WITH A GENUINE COMPLEMENT.

2) BUY A GIFT CARD TO YOUR FAVORITE SPOT AND LEAVE IT ON SOMEONE’S WINDSHIELD.

3) USE SOMETHING YOU’RE GREAT AT TO BLESS SOMEONE ELSE!

How can you show genuine kindness today? How could that change the culture and atmosphere of your surroundings for you and your people? It’s so simple - making the world a better place doesn’t have to be complicated. We just have to choose it! It’s incredible how amazing it makes us feel AND how seen and loved the recipient of the kindness feels!

WAKE UP WORDS: ITS NOT TOO LATE.

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 12:52:00 GMT

What important thing have you been putting off? Don’t wait! You’ve put it off long enough and it’s never too late to set things right! Maybe you've told yourself you're too busy, you don't have enough money or emotional support, you don't want to forgive, you'll have time later.

Don't wait for tomorrow... you're not guaranteed tomorrow. None of us are.

Who do you need to forgive? Who do you need to ask forgiveness from? What have you been putting on the back burner that needs to be moved front and center?? No one is going to do the hard stuff for you. If you're breathing there's still a chance to go after that dream, relationship, career, health goal, or whatever it is you spend your days thinking about. Today is your chance! It's not too late!

TAKE ACTION: You don't have to conquer it all right now... just take one small step today... and then do it again tomorrow and the next day!

WAKE UP WORDS: FAILURE IS NOT THE ENEMY.

Thu, 08 Sep 2022 12:09:00 GMT

What if I told you failure is actually a gift. This isn’t woo-woo voodoo. In my life I can honestly say what I have learned from each and every failure, big and small, has given me the tools, wisdom, emotional intelligence and courage to go after what we’re going after now.

Your biggest failure in life is your biggest gift!

And when we can view failure that way it makes it so much less scary!

TAKE ACTION: Today’s challenge is to refuse to allow shame or guilt to tell you anything about failure in your life! Instead take some time this morning to look at it objectively… make a list of what you learned and how it’s made you better. When the fear failure and the sting of past failures no longer hold power over what you choose to say yes to, there’s NOTHING you can’t do!

WAKE UP WORDS: DARE TO DISRUPT.

Wed, 07 Sep 2022 13:12:00 GMT

Amazing things happen when we're willing to break free from the status quo.More

WAKE UP WORDS: CHOOSE WONDER.

Tue, 06 Sep 2022 13:09:00 GMT

Wonder: (noun) To be surprised by the beauty of something unfamiliar, inexplicable or unexpected.

Wonder is all around us but it’s easy to miss! Especially on days like today. Coming back from a long weekend can push us into "get stuff done" mode. Don't get me wrong, a productive day is pretty wonderful BUT when we can look up, take a breathe AND CHOOSE to see beauty and kindness in the world around us we will be filled with wonder.

Why does it matter??? Why is wonder so great?? Starting our work week off with wonder sets our perspective and how we will react to the world around us. We are being inundated with bad news, so much feels heavy and out of our control... but when we can be present and choose wonder our hearts and minds almost instantly become lighter.

Instead of being bearers of bad news and negativity we become bearers of light and love and kindness. We get to choose how we will experience this week AND how we will influence those around us.

TAKE ACTION: Set your alarm on your phone to remind you to stop and breathe at least three times today. Here's how it will go:

                       * Breathe in for 4 seconds
                       * Breathe out for 4 seconds
                       * Hold your breath for 4 seconds
                       * Breathe in for 4 seconds

THEN, take a moment to look around you and choose to find unexpected beauty in something you've missed.

Wonder is a choice and it will build something beautiful in your life if you let it!! Here's to an amazing day!

WAKE UP WORDS: COMMIT TO COURAGE.

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 13:02:00 GMT

Courage moves us forward in the midst of our fear, self-doubt and insecurities. I love courage because you don’t have to have all of your crap together to have it. You just have to commit to it.

Everything else can be a mess in our lives but if we’re committed to having courage it gives us bursts of what we need just when we need it to get us unstuck.

Courage doesn’t discriminate- it comes to anyone willing to take hold of it ... I think that’s why I like it so much.

TAKE ACTION: Today will fly by in the blink of an eye, so will tomorrow and the next day. What we do with the precious time we have matters! How could committing to having courage in your life TODAY change things for the better?? Don’t put it off for one more day! Today is your Day! Now is your time!!

WAKE UP WORDS: DEFY THE ODDS.

Fri, 02 Sep 2022 14:19:00 GMT

Maybe what society deems as impossible is just waiting for a fresh perspective…More

WAKE UP WORDS: BE A LIGHT.

Thu, 01 Sep 2022 13:00:00 GMT

How do we make a difference when it feels like the world is crumbling around us?

We choose to be a light.

We rise above the drama on social media. We take a break from the news. We look people, even strangers , in the eye and smile. We are present with friends and family. We refuse to gossip or delight in sharing bad news. We choose to love people, more than we love our own opinions. We take a step back and choose to see the big picture.

The world needs our light now more than ever! There are SO MANY things aimed to divide us - don’t allow it! The person standing in front of you is never your enemy. When we can look past the “issues” and intentionally see the person we bridge the gap and our light shines bright. In a time when so many are addicted to outrage and negativity- let’s refuse to fit in! Let’s be Outsiders today, rebels who refuse to be brought down by our surroundings!

TAKE ACTION: Today our mission is to love, encourage, lift up, smile, be warm and inviting, to show up 100 % and BE A LIGHT! You can do it! We’re with you and we love you!

WAKE UP WORDS: YOU ARE ALREADY BRAVE!

Wed, 31 Aug 2022 21:06:00 GMT

What if I told you that you're already brave enough to take on THAT THING you've been thinking about for so long?

You might think you need to feel brave BEFORE you move forward but actually you already have exactly what you need to move forward inside of you.

Courage isn't just going to come slap you upside the head one day. You won't all of the sudden feel bold and brave and ready to take on the world - the boldness and true bravery will show itself little by little AS YOU MOVE.

TAKE ACTION: Today we challenge you test out our theory... take one scary step (even if it's tiny) and see what happens! We think that one step will initiate a cycle of bravery that will just continue to grow as you go!

If you're curious about your 3 BIGGEST BRAVERY ROADBLOCKS join us on the Outsider Nation Podcast where we're diving deep on the topic of bravery in today's episode! You can find us on Apple Podcasts or Spotify or just press play below:)

WAKE UP WORDS: IT'S TIME!

Tue, 30 Aug 2022 12:22:00 GMT

You've been waiting for all of the pieces to fall into place BEFORE you take that step forward. But what if I tell you, TAKING THAT FIRST STEP is the most important piece?

When you think about why we hesitate - it's not because we're afraid of how great life will be if we follow our hearts - it's because we're afraid of losing what we have (even if it's not that great) in pursuit of something amazing that's not guaranteed.

We're afraid of failing. We're afraid of proving those negative voices right. We're afraid that when push comes to shove we really aren't good enough.

BUT WHAT IF...

We take that first step and discover incredible things about ourselves? What if we choose to say yes and we learn failing is an important part of the process and not something to be ashamed of? What if we take that risk and realize there's a whole world of experiences we've been missing out on because we were too afraid to leave what we know?

TODAY IS YOUR DAY! IT'S TIME... WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?

WAKE UP WORDS: MAKE TODAY COUNT.

Mon, 29 Aug 2022 13:34:00 GMT

A lot can happen in 24 hours. This morning as we wake up and face the week we get to choose how powerful today will be for ourselves and for the people around us.

Often it doesn’t take that much to make a moment meaningful but we miss it because we’re so focused on what has to get done or because we’re so stuck in our routines that we miss amazing opportunities to make a difference.

You are a difference maker! Today is your day. What will you do with it?

WAKE UP WORDS: RISK > SAFETY

Thu, 25 Aug 2022 11:59:00 GMT

Risk is about saying YES to becoming the person we were created to be: EVERY SINGLE DAY.

It's not a one time thing, it's a series of small choices we make daily that determine if we will love ourselves enough to truly be ourselves and live a life that reflects that OR if we will choose what's easy, comfortable and safe even if it's not what we want.

It's your choice . How will you be the person you were meant to be TODAY?? Will you take the risk?

WAKE UP WORDS: BE BRAVE & KIND

Tue, 23 Aug 2022 13:56:00 GMT

Life takes on a whole new meaning when we face it with the powerful combination of bravery AND kindness . On their own they’re great of course, but when they’re combined they are explosive!

TAKE ACTION: Take a minute to think about what today could look like for you by embracing BOTH of these gifts! We all have them - we just don’t always choose to use them together!

Write down ONE tangible way you will allow this daring duo to propel you forward TODAY, THIS WEEK and THIS MONTH. We are absolutely going to do this today and we’re cheering you on!!

WAKE UP WORDS: YOU’RE AN OUTSIDER

Fri, 19 Aug 2022 09:00:00 GMT

You don’t need permission to go after your dreams. You know you belong anywhere you show up because you love who you are and see how far you’ve come! You love others, even those with differing views because you’re so secure in who you are. You’re not afraid to risk and fail because you know it’s that process that makes you strong and your story worth living!

TAKE ACTION: Today is the day you get to own all of the amazing things about being an Outsider, it matters, you matter and we love you! Happy Friday!

This week’s podcast is on these very words thanks to our trusty WAKE UP WORD ROULETTE! Click below to take a listen and find out how being an Outsider can change your life!

APPLE PODCAST: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outsider-nation/id864-314-2529?i=1000576395043

SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/6O8AZGCXdfMEFQhK9w0Xo3

WAKE UP WORDS: DON’T GIVE UP!

Thu, 18 Aug 2022 12:18:00 GMT

There are definitely times when you know in your guts a season is coming to an end … that’s not what we’re talking about here.

I’m talking about when you really want something but it’s taking longer than you thought to achieve. Rest, pivot, take a new direction but don’t give up on the thing that’s burning inside of you.

Too often we try and it doesn’t turn out how we think so we take it as a sign to quit - but what if whatever you’re about to give up on just needs a little time and creativity to find traction? What if you need the time to grow and mature enough to carry what you’re going after? Our need for instant gratification kills more dreams than fear or incompetence ever will. Today remember we’re cheering you on! You were made for greatness! DON’T. GIVE. UP !

WAKE UP WORDS: DO IT ANYWAY.

Wed, 17 Aug 2022 16:26:00 GMT

DO IT ANYWAY. Maybe someone else has already done it. Do it anyway. Maybe you don’t have the money… figure out how to take the first step and do it anyway. Maybe you don’t have the entire plan figured out… start now and do it anyway! Maybe the people your closest to you are supportive - if you know in your guts it’s the right move … you have to do it anyway.

TAKE ACTION: There’s never going to be a perfect time and dreams born in adversity have the grit and stamina to make it through anything. You’re so strong and smart and creative - it’s time to stop making excuses! Today is your day!

WAKE UP WORDS: REMEMBER HOW FAR YOU'VE COME

Tue, 16 Aug 2022 11:23:00 GMT

Three years ago we were just days away from our Outsider grand opening. To say we had no clue what we were doing would be an understatement. We risked EVERYTHING and it has been anything but easy. We have graduated from the school of hard knocks… a few times I think �� But these three years have grown us, made us scrappier and strengthened our love for our team and all of the incredible people we get to serve each day.

TAKE ACTION: Take a minute this morning and reflect on how far you’ve come in the past few years! What’s been really hard, how did you get through it? What was better than you thought it would be? How have you grown. Take today to celebrate how far you’ve come! You’re amazing and we love you!

WAKE UP WORDS: LOVE WHAT YOU’VE GOT!

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 11:43:00 GMT

You might not have everything you want but this is your friendly reminder to:

Sometimes the quickest way to change our perspective is to choose to love what we already have.

TAKE ACTION: What is one thing you’ve absolutely taken for granted lately that deserves some love? Choose love this week and watch how your world changes! Happy Monday!

WAKE UP WORDS: IMPOSSIBLE IS JUST A WORD.

Fri, 12 Aug 2022 11:55:00 GMT

It’s amazing what happens when we stop telling ourselves (and others) what’s impossible.

Impossible is a word we use when we’re too afraid to believe that our dreams can come true!

Is what we want going to just fall into our laps ?? Not in my experience. It’s going to require hard work, discipline, sacrifice and an intentional decision to leave our comfort zones daily.

We have to be careful NOT to slap a label of “Impossible” on something that simply feels overwhelming.

TAKE ACTION: What have you written off as “IMPOSSIBLE” in your life? What if it’s not??? Today your only job is to think through what COULD be possible!

WAKE UP WORDS: KEEP SAYING YES.

Thu, 11 Aug 2022 12:41:00 GMT

It’s so easy to say, “I tried, it didn’t work, I’m done.” When we finally take a chance and step out and risk only to be met with disappointment that’s where 90% of people quit.

But in those moments of heartache, usually accompanied by shame, what if we reframed the situation and just asked what do I need to be saying yes to. When things don’t work it’s not about giving up it’s about pivoting and choosing to be open to new opportunities.

The destination may look completely different than you ever thought or dreamed. But when we keep saying yes we keep living the life we were created for. When we keep saying yes we grow, we heal, and we don’t back down from new opportunities to follow our dreams. When we refuse to give up, and we keep saying yes to all life sends our way, we realize the process is the actual gift, and where we end up is extra!

Cheers to an incredible Thursday!

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WAKE UP WORDS: DONE IS BETTER THAN PERFECT

Wed, 10 Aug 2022 09:52:00 GMT

DONE > PERFECT . Perfectionism is actually just insecurity in a nice package. People push back with me all the time when I say stuff like this - like somehow this statement means I’m celebrating mediocrity and I can’t appreciate excellence. But that’s not actually true.

I’ve just seen too many people back down from a dream they’re passionate about because it’s not perfect.

Is there any area of your life you’ve shied away from because you don’t have the skill, time or money to make it “perfect”?

TAKE ACTION: We miss out on so many incredible things when we value being perfect over risking and just going for it! Today is your day! It doesn’t have to be perfect - just go for it!

WAKE UP WORDS: DROP WHAT ISN'T SERVING YOU.

Tue, 09 Aug 2022 11:13:00 GMT

DROP WHAT ISN'T SERVING YOU . On the surface these words might seem selfish. BUT we all carry around so many unhealed parts of our pasts that not only don’t serve us or who we want to be - they also keep us in unhealthy cycles and stunt our growth.

What unhealthy part of your life is holding you back?

I think we can all agree anything on this list isn’t serving a greater good in our lives AND it’s ok to let it go! Today we challenge you to look deep, face the truth and make a change! We’re cheering you on!